NYFW GIVEAWAY TIME!!!

I’m giving one fashion-minded individual to enter in this NYFW giveaway. To experience a fashion experience like no other!  When I started this fashion week experience, I didn’t think people wanted to actually go to NYFW. Then I realized there’s a lot of fashion-minded people that don’t know the ins and outs of going to fashion week. The going to fashion week is easy. But it’s about the planning process that people are not willing to do or don’t know how to do. There were many years that I didn’t attend fashion week until one day I said…I’m going to fashion week! 


All in all, Fashion week is the place to be. You have individuals that come to slay.
Let’s talk about the process. You have to prepare months in advance.  
The dates are key to attending fashion week. I usually go to fashion week on weekend from Thursday evening to Sunday afternoon. Attending fashion doesn’t have to be a weeklong stay. Work with dates that your schedule permits. 
Plan your Outfits-I plan my looks the night before or attending a big event. And fashion week is a big event. If you can buy your outfits online or shop at your favorite clothing store, get that accessory, wigs, hats, and find that right bag. When you find that right look. It becomes priceless. 

Write the best pitch Letter-Pitch letter is a must if you’re wanting to attend the fashion week. Get someone to help write the best pitch letter that expresses your personality and illustrates your brand. Make a list of designers that you want to attend their shows. Send emails to the designer’s PR company expressing your interest in going to their show. People don’t realize that you’ll spend hours writing and perfecting your pitch letter. Once, you get a response sometimes you’ll get a no and others a yes. Don’t get frustrated work with the yes’s and find other events that you can attend while in NYC. 

Find a place on Airbnb- I never get a hotel that is too expensive. I love going on vacation and finding that Airbnb. You’ll save money as NYC hotels are expensive. I found this cute place in Manhattan for only $400 for 4 days. What a steal. 

Make a schedule- Based on the dates you attend the fashion week. Make a schedule of shows that you’ll be attending. I put my schedule in a google sheet. That way I can access on my phone, computer, or IPAD. Honestly, it makes you super neat! 

Get Ready- Fashion week is fun & eventful. You’ll network with different people that love fashion much as you do! Don’t get overwhelmed, if you get shy to talk to others. the best way to get a conversation, “I love your shoes. I love sunnies super cute” It’s worked for me every time!  


The take ways from this experience: 
1.      The dates your attending Fashion week
2.      Plan your outfits months in an advance 
3.      Write the best pitch letter
4.      Find a place on Airbnb; find a cheap place that’s in the city Manhattan 
5.      Make a schedule of the shows you’ll be attending 
6.      Get ready to have the most fun as possible in a fashion frenzy environment 
Stay tuned for all fashion week looks on the blog, Instagram (stories)…See you at NYFW!

BURGUNDY HERE TO STAY….

Hello All, 

Burgundy has been called all sorts of names. Lol such as oxblood, maroon, reddish-purple. This color will continue to be a trend and creep up in every fall & winter season. Now I got to say, Burgundy boots are still the must-have. This season brings burgundy pieces into your wardrobe. The burgundy is the best color that will match with either black, pink, navy, and camel. There are so many outfit combinations you can wear with this vibrant color, and you have the choice of how to wear it.

Find a cozy burgundy sweater to give you a trendy look during this cold weather. Now for my look, I added a burgundy cardigan and velvet booties to give kind of a matchy-matchy look! I’m a big fan of coming up with different color combinations. My wardrobe needed a reinvention so burgundy pieces work for the winter season. 

Photos by: Carlton Hart 
WHAT I WORE: 
Banana Republic: Sweater 
H&M: Pants &Hat 
Steve Madden: Boots 



FLORAL ALL DAY….

Hello All, 

Floral can go a long way. The question is, can you wear floral in winter? I’m here to tell you YES YES and YES!!! Introduce spring floral to your winter wardrobe. In pairing floral pieces you must be a tad bit strategic. Here’s what you need to do by being a floral pro: 
1. Compliment your fabric with darker colors that goes with the winter season
2. Cover-Up your floral that you can pair underneath a dress, a cardigan or paired with a blazer. 
3. Adding different textures into your floral look such as velvet like the dress I wore with this floral top. 
4. Have fun with picking the best floral look this winter 

Photos by: Carlton Hart 
What’s your favorite floral look for this winter? 
WHAT I WORE: 
H&M: Top 
WHO WHAT WEAR at Target: Dress 
Sam Edelmen: Boots 

New York Fashion Week….

 Hello All, 

Day 2 was epic. I really enjoyed getting into fashion shows just being around fashion-minded people. I think what I realized it’s not about how many followers I have. As an influencer whether your A to D list status, your content throughout the fashion shows is imperative. Being at a fashion show is one thing. Actually getting the coverage for the show is ideally what an influencer needs to get while at the show. I’ve seen people sitting in the front row just sitting in the front row. I’ve talked to many people who actually work during fashion shows. They’ve all said the same thing, the attendees that sit in the front row or that are attending these fashion shows. Are not promoting the designers’ brand. 



What do you mean? 

When you get into these fashion shows, the first thing is to find the hashtag associated with the designer. Most of the time you see attendees not using the hashtag of the designer. They are all taking selfies…hey look at me I’m at “Ruby Fang Fashion Show”. This is bad for the designer because they need all the promotion from the attendees that come to their fashion show. 
How many people come to the show? 
At least 1,000 attendees are attending these shows.  Out of 1,000 attendees at least 100 attendees are actually working during the fashion show. Honestly, this is a bad disappointment for NYFW and the designer. NYFW to me is a job. I’m a reporter for my blog and getting the content to promote the designers’ brand. I don’t go to shows to go to shows. I promote for the fashion designers, Who else will promote for the designer. During the shows, I’m getting photos and video content that I can use to post on my social media platforms. After the show is over, I look back at my coverage. I see the garments and the collection for what it is. I sit in the front row, I’m getting the coverage of shooting photos or video. 


NYFW has changed? 

When I first attended NYFW back in 2014, it was so different. More organized and PR companies looking at your quality of work. I send at least 100 pitch letter expressing my desire to attend any fashion shows during fashion week. Guess how many invites I receive at least 10 invites. All the work I put in is not valued. I actually have worked hard in providing reviews from the shows. Sending my coverage links to PR companies. It honestly doesn’t even matter. Let’s say you get invited to attend the Chromat Fashion show. You get to the venue to get your ticket and it’s a standing ticket. 

And how many people have standing tickets at least 500 attendees? 
There’s no way all those attendees standing outside are going to get into the show. And sure enough, the designer overbooked the show. Attendees storm off mad and confused, Why send an invite and tell attendees they can get into the show. It makes you not want to attend these shows. They’re not looking at what attendees who will promote their brand. Nonetheless, the designer wants to fill the venue space which is more important than attendees’ quality of work. 
Will I attend NYFW in February? 
Yes, I’ll be ready. This is my honest opinion of what I observed during fashion week. I think next year I’ll explore, shop, and go to presentations for smaller brands. I’ll enjoy fashion week instead of worrying about what fashion shows I’ll be attending. 

WHAT I WORE: 


H&M: Top & Skirt 
Sam’s Beauty:
 

FASHION & COMFORT…

Hello All, 

My mindset right now is about being comfortable in my own skin. In me being comfortable, I feel fashion has helped me in achieving this comfort. 



Healthy kick is something that is a must. If I don’t have a healthy lifestyle I definitely won’t look good in my clothes. Being Healthy and fashionable is a mindset.  Healthy kicks are literally the new fashion. If your doing the new keto diet or the 10 day challenge then your with the new trend. If your not doing it people are looking at you like your crazy! 

We have sense to put on an image for others. Like for instance, people measure your wealth by the amount of money you have and what one can afford. But really only one who’s a celebrity can afford expensive things. Or should I say if you making over $100k you could afford expensive items. Who Wants to base their life on buying expensive things that are expensive. I go back to how you feel
comfortable makes you feel confident in one self. I rather continue to go shop in thirds store, target, hm, Zara clothing stores that I can afford. 
As you look at my outfit this look is what I can afford. I find reasonable items that look good and are inexpensive. You can still be put good look together on a budget and wear a statement look. I hope you enjoyed my conversation and send me a comment below let me hear the most expensive clothing you’ve ever bought. 
Fashion Love 

WHAT I WORE: 

TOBI: Top 
H&M: Pants 
Zara: Shoes 
Sugarfix by target: Earrings 
Apar Designs: Bag 

WHITE TREND LOOK….

Hello All,

Do you ever have that those times, wearing white makes you on edge? When I wear white it makes me look at my look every five minutes. I’m always on the watch…lol. Although I can’t stand getting my white clothes dirty that doesn’t stop me from wearing white! So I love wearing white it has such a slick look. I think this look is versatile and stylish, it can be easily be incorporated within your wardrobe. If you look in the magazine on the runway, this trend has emerged every season. You can wear white that has ruffle sleeves to flared pants. If your simple as I am you’ll find many ways to incorporate white look from day to night and season to season. I choose to wear my look with a basic top and white slacks paired with white booties. If it gets cold outside I brought my jean jacket. I keep my looks simple that anyone can wear or try to wear the same look. I’ve could of went on the wild side and added a pop of color especially neon top with neon shoes. What do you think? This look can be worn to brunch, a casual date, or nice happy hour outing.

This season is the right time to embark on this trend. Be stylish without being stylish by breaking all the most tried and tested trends. This hue can make you look polished and clean. Make a statement wearing the white trend as you’ll stand out!

WHAT I WORE: 
GAP: Jacket
Theory: Pants
DSW: Shoes
VioletDC: Tank
SugarFix: Necklace

SANDY POINT BEACH……

Hey All,

If you’re in the metropolitan area and you want to get away go visit Sandy Point State Park Beach. The beach is located in Annapolis Maryland. I went there for a couple hours just to relax my mind. The drive was not too bad only 1 hour and 10 minutes. Once we arrive we had to pay a car admissions fee of $7 to get into the beach. We went during the summertime, which it’s always crowded all summer long. I was able to find a space to set-up my beach tent and have my own area. The experience was super peaceful and relaxing. I love having a beach tent you get your own privacy. We brought some little snack and of course lots of water to drink. So I don’t get dehydrated. I had fun and I would definitely go back again. Well before the summer ends!!!

From my experience here are the pros and cons:

Pro
-Perfect for a family & friends picnic
-Always find a vacant spot to sit on the beach
-water is cool and clean
-Enjoyed the nature center, playground, flying kites, collecting shells, wading, …
-Great view of the Chesapeake bay bridge
-Diverse crowds of people

Cons
-They only thing I can say about the beach. It’s dirty. There’s dead fish all along the shore of the beach, so creates a fish smell.
-Overcrowded all year long except for the wintertime starting in October-March
-The sand is not white sand has an orangey color
-Paying a fee to get into the beach

See you next time!

WHAT I WORE: 

Old Navy: Bathing Suit & Flip-Flops
Nordstorm Rack: Jeans
NYS Eyewear: Sunnies

JUNE FASHION BIRTHDAY….

Hello All,
A month ago, I celebrated my birthday. So Birthday celebrations are for fun! I love birthdays it’s the best time to enjoy family and friends. I think as I get older I want to cherish real genuine friendships that you can talk to each other in free space. I’ve come across people that want to know everything about me, but have nothing say about their life. It makes me think, they don’t feel comfortable to talk about personal conversations. I feel like a friendship is with friends that you can have serious and not so serious conversations. I know for me I tell to much, which makes me be an open book. I’m stepping back talking less and observing other people. It’s good not always a good thing to say something that can come off in a negative or positive way.

Honestly, it shows growth I realized sometimes I talk about people who rubbed me the wrong which can come off in a negative way. I’m just not going to say, “this person said this” or “this person did this”. I’m looking at in one perspective when there’s two perspectives yours and the other persons. I need to take everything in stride!

For my birthday this what I learned:
-Don’t take everything personally
-Let people talk and have their opinions, you don’t have to agree with their opinions
-Don’t respond to what others say. Just be quiet it’s a good thing!
-Be around positive people that want you to succeed.
-Enjoy life and speak about things that are going to uplift you!

WHAT I WORE: 

NY& COMPANY: Dress
LOUIS ET CIE: Lace-Up Heels
SUGAR FIX BY BAUBLEBAR: Earrings 

BASIC INVITE 15% OFF SALE!!!

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You don’t have to take my word for it. Look at the customer reviews that share their experiences while shopping on Basic Invite. So many templates to choose from, you won’t be able to decide. Everything that you’ll choose will turn out exactly the way you designed your invitation. The pricing is affordable, the delivery will be on-time, and ready for you to send out invitations to attendees.




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SOCIALERAS X ABEATIS…

Socialeras has so many brands to choose from to athletic wear, clothing to bras. You name it! The site connects you with brands that have a purpose. Some brands you’ll find are leather companies that specialize in vegan leather that don’t believe in animal cruelty. Other brands that don’t buy from factories and then the customers end paying the hidden cost for a product so companies can make a profit. The socialeras is a platform that allows the customer to connect to brand that fits their taste and interest.


I had the opportunity to work with a cool brand on the socialeras website called Abeatis an athletic leisure brand. That’s a creative and intuitive balance to help achieve the best performance in total comfort.  Abeatis takes a combination of design and technology by forming a unique functional brand. But yet this brand is about making you the ultimate sporty chic!

 

What items will you find? You can find matching sports bras and leggings to separates pieces like tops, leggings, or sports bras. At the end of the day, you’ll find what you’re looking for.

One of the brands abeatis a creative athleisure apparel that offers the perfect balance of technology and ergonomic design. 

I have to say I received three pieces from abeatis I was super impressed. The pieces were abeatis Olympia high-waist leggings, abeatis full mesh hoodie, and abeatis pocketed tank bra. Let me give you a break- down of how these pieces made me feel: 

-Olympia high waist leggings I absolutely love these leggings. (And the logo in the back). I’m not a fan of showing my stomach so the fact it’s high-waisted. It gave me the confidence to confrontable with the stomach. It gave me breathability helped suck in my stomach. The fabric is very smooth and flexible that you don’t feel confined. I was amazed at how confrontable these leggings felt. I would definitely recommend these leggings if you’re a sporty chic like me. 


Full mesh hoodie if I’m going to wear a long sleeve…I want it to be comfortable. This hoodie has the perfect material it’s warm and light. Wearing the hoodie has such a breathable material it’s all about comfort. Perfect for the warm-up before you kick your workout into high gear as well as when you’re cooling down after a session. Who doesn’t like the logo!

 



Now the pocketed tank bra it’s the best sports bra around. I get full coverage and not sagging, I don’t have to worry about anything popping out. Check in the back of the sports bra it Includes a utility pocket and headphone stability slot to ensure that you never miss a beat. I would definitely want to see more tank bra colors.

 

Defintiely stop by socialeras and check out the sale that’s going on Abeatis in the check out use my code fitsonme. Tell Abeatis I sent you to come and purchase some sporty looks!

 


Check out their website https://socialeras.com, and follow their Instagram account @social.eras @abeatisofficial as well as facebook. At checkout use my 10% discount code: Fitsonme (Valid until June 15th).  

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